Stop Waiting for An Airborne Plane

“After decades of talk, we finally began to wean ourselves off foreign oil, and doubled our production of clean energy.” –  President Barack Obama, Speech at 2016 DNC. This is very instructive for my country’s government and other national governments who are running economies relying on a single commodity.

For Nigeria and other oil producing countries, we need to wake up to the reality that the world is moving away from oil. The world is moving to cheaper and cleaner forms of energy. Rather than moaning over depletion of oil revenue, let us shift our focus and energy on diversifying our economies.

It is equally instructive for us in our individual lives, that we should not stay glued to one idea, one line of income or  one cash cow. The world is evolving rapidly, tastes, fashion, lifestyle choices are changing rapidly. So if you don’t want to be left behind you need to embrace the change. Have you been recording low sales, low patronage, low income, it may just be time to switch to the innovative gear. It may be time to change your product or service, or market or sales channel, or even strategy.

Don’t stay glued to an unhealthy relationship, except if you are married. If you are married and you are having issues with your spouse, sit down together and work it out, seek help together, if need be. If you are not married yet and you are going through emotional and physical abuse, yet you are still waiting for your partner to change, it may be like waiting for a plane that has taken off!

As a believer, be receptive to the nudging of the Holy Spirit as a believer. Peter never expected that he will be asked to preach to the Gentiles, Paul did and he recorded more Epistles and acts than Peter.

Stop waiting for a plane that is already airborne.

God bless us all.

Good morning!

You May Just Be The Last Hope

Life can be very unfair and we often complain so, especially when it seems life has chosen to deal unjustifiable blows at us. When Job (in the Bible) recorded unprecedented losses, the wife was angry and saw God as an unfair God. Meanwhile before the losses she never thought that God was unfairly fair to her husband! That is our natural thought pattern, we complain when we don’t get the expected, but forget to appreciate when we get the undeserved, unexpectedly.

When life is cruelly unfair to us, one of the things that can make it bearable is the presence of friends and relatives who are there to support, encourage, pray and help out in any way. Unfortunately, most of the times, we don’t get such supports when we need them and this has sent many to early grave and truncated many great destinies. We are often betrayed by our very own, just like Job’s wife asked him to curse God and die.

It is therefore important we show up for our own when it matters. Let us be there for one another. Your call may be the last thing that will restore that hope. Your words of encouragement via sms may just be what will save that fellow from committing suicide. Your prayers and gifts may just be the ray of hope for another, that perhaps God has not forgotten him. Your little seed may be what will save that other fellow’s dream or business. You may just be the last hope, succour, comfort, or lifeline. Don’t withhold that love, care, concern or prayer. Give it out for it might be a lifesaver.

Let us make the world a better place for ourselves by being there for ourselves.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

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Unavoidable Pains of Life (1)

Just as a child would have to accept some pains in the process of growing up, so we must need accept some pains as part of life. A baby boy has to endure the pain of circumcision, while a baby girl has to endure the pain of ear piercing. When a baby start the teething process, it comes with pain and discomfort, but it must happen.

In life, you cannot gain anything without some pains. Nothing worthwhile happens without sacrifice. Some of the pains you have to endure in life are:

1. Pain of Learning: You have to subject yourself to the rigor of learning either formally or informally in order to become informed about a trade, skill or profession. Learning requires discipline, sacrifice of time, sleep, money and sometimes relationship. If you want to become a medical doctor, for instance, you must be willing to stay up longer at your reading desk more than an aspiring engineer. You cannot become a leader without learning to be a servant. Leaders are made through the process of learning. If you desire to become an actor, you must be willing to learn how to act. Whatever you desire, you need to pay the price of learning it. This is an unavoidable pain. If you don’t learn you can’t earn.

2. Pain of Giving Birth: If you cannot stand the pain and discomfort of carrying a pregnancy for nine months, plus the pain of labour period, you have no business expecting a child. For you to birth anything great, you must bear the pain of carrying and nurturing the dream. If you dream of owning a house, you must bear the pain of savings towards land acquisition. You must deny yourself a lot of things during the building process. Whatever it is that is worthwhile that you want to achieve, if you are not ready for the pain, then stop hoping for it.

3. Pain of Dying: We are not referring to literally dying here. We are talking about letting go of certain habits in our lives in order to become a better person. You sometimes have to let go of some of your indulgences, in order to become matured and capable of taking higher responsibilities. If you seek spiritual power from God, you must be willing to tame your appetite. You must be given to praying and fasting. Even in the political world, if you desire certain position, you must be ready to sleep less, have less privacy, read more and so on. You want a better relationship and you are not ready to deal with yourself first, then forget about it. Living starts with dying first. We die to self so that we can live for others.

We will look at some more pains tomorrow.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

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If Your Life Was A Movie

There are certain movies I saw as a child that remain stuck in my memory for different reasons. Some have characters  that are lovable and who kids would want to emulate, like Veeru and Jai in Sholay (Amitabh Bachchan and Dharmendra). Some have terrible and wicked characters that you just detest as a kid, like ‘the bad’ in the movie ‘The Good, the Bad and the Ugly’ by Clint Eastwood. Titanic is another movie that told the story of love in a better way than Romeo and Juliet. Jack (Leonardo di Caprio) played the lover who sacrificed his life to keep his lover alive after the Titanic sank. It portrayed sacrifice in love and love without holding back.

We all have such movies with heroes and villains whose roles still flash through our minds. Now try to imagine that your entire life is a movie and it is being shown to the whole world. What perception will the audience have about your role? Heroic or Villainous? Would the world dislike your role like that of Gabbar Singh (Amjad Khan) in ‘Sholay’? Or would you be loved like Jai and Veeru (Dharmendra)? We know leaders who are like Gabbar in our times. We equally know leaders who are like Veeru and Jai. Who are you like?

It is time to pause and reflect on your life and see it as a movie. Do you like your roles so far? Are you proud of your contributions thus far? Are there things you wish you could undo? Begin to make amends and necessary adjustments as you deem fit. Truly, our lives are like storybooks, we daily write our stories with our actions. The parting questions are ‘what kind of story am I writing with my life?’ and ‘if my life was a movie, will I be seen as a hero or villain?’.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

Laws of Life (4)

Today we will round up on the Laws of Life. There are other laws but we will pause here while we focus on applying these laws in our lives.

9. Law of Appreciation: This law is a derivative of the law of Seed and Harvest. It states that whatever you appreciate and consciously show gratitude and value for, tends to increase. Simply put, appreciation brings increase. This law is applicable in every area of Life. Try appreciating the efforts of your spouse more and watch the effects. Or show gratitude for the output of your workers and give positive or constructive criticism, you will be amazed at how it will impact greatly on subsequent output. A small gift in your life can become your major source of income if you appreciate it.

The converse of this law is the law of depreciation. Simply states that what you don’t appreciate will depreciate. So start checking your appreciation quotient. The higher your Appreciation Quotient, the better your standard of living. It is not how much you have that determines your standard of living, but how much value you place on what you have. If you want your marriage to become better, start appreciating your spouse. Show that you are grateful for his or her efforts. Give kind words. Stop focusing on his or her weakness. Praise his or her strength.

This law can be applied to career, life, politics, and just anything. If you show love to even your domestic animals or pets, you will be amazed by the kind of loyalty you will get from them. Start today.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

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Laws of Life (3)

We continue again today on our series on Laws of Life. It is my hope that as we begin to apply these principles in our lives, we will begin to experience positive changes.

7. Law of Focus: This law emphasizes the importance of directing one’s energy and passion at a single task or goal per time. If you focus the sun on a piece of paper with a lens, after one or two minutes, that point on the paper will start burning. The speed at which this will happen depends on the intensity of the sun, how powerful the lens is and the thickness of the paper. This simple illustration can be applied to any task or dream we set out to achieve. The sun represents your energy, skills, resources and passion, while the lens represent your mind (undivided attention) and the paper is the task at hand. If you direct all your energy and resources with a focused mind on any task, you will easily and quickly accomplish the task better than if you have divided attention. Have you been finding any task difficult? Try the law of Focus and you will surely accomplish the task.

8. Law of Replacement: This law stresses the need for continuous replacement or replenishment of resources, either of the mind or body. You must regularly create time for your mind and body to be renewed through the process of rest, relaxation, exercise and meditation. The body is like a container holding the mind, no matter how sharp your mind is, it needs the body to execute its thoughts, and the body has a limitation, it ages. You can however reduce the aging process through constant rest, retreat, and exercise. Sleep at least 6 hours every night, no matter how busy you are. The mind also loses its sharpness if not exercised and well rested. Create periodic time of retreat where you can do nothing but meditate and refresh your mind. Fill your mind with the Words of God, positive and inspiring messages. Exercise your heart through regular exercise. Many people are dropping dead everyday due to accumulated stress and tiredness of the heart. Don’t be a victim, apply the law of replacement.

Till tomorrow.

God bless us all.

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Laws of Life (2)

We began this series yesterday with the first four laws and here are a few more laws that will smoothen your journey through life.

5. Law of the Supernatural: This law affirms that what happens in the natural is determined in the Supernatural. The natural is the physical world while the supernatural is the spiritual world. While some people do not believe in the existence of the supernatural, it really does exist and controls the natural as well. You only ignore the supernatural at your own peril. You must take your position in the supernatural to earn it in the natural. You cannot be in charge in the natural if you have been discharged in the supernatural. Man is a triune being with a spirit, soul and body. Your spirit relates with the Supernatural (or the spirit realm) and conveys messages from the supernatural to the natural via your soul and body. You must therefore equip your spirit man to be able to function well in the spirit realm. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5, Ephesians 6:11-12.

Law of Association: This law presupposes that you are the average or mean of the collection of people you associate with. If most of your associates are bright and intelligent, you will be bright and vice-versa. So whatever you desire to become in life, associate with people who have achieved more than your dream and you will find the right support for your dream. Proverbs 13:20. Your association must be carefully selected. A sheep that walks with the dog will eventually eat dungs. A dog that grew up with a lion will behave like a lion. Watch your association.

We will continue with the laws tomorrow.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

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Managing Crisis

Life is programmed such that we will need always experience challenging times. Sometimes it is in our personal lives, other times it is in our career, some other times it is in our businesses. I mean, that period of crisis that threatens to consume us and makes us to start fearing the worst. Nobody is immuned to crisis. Life chart is like a wave of water, with crests and troughs at different points. The crests represent our moments of great achievement while the troughs represent those moments of crises.

How do you handle moments of crisis?
1. Know that every crisis like every other thing has a life cycle. It has a beginning and it will surely end someday.

2. Maintain your peace, composure and sanity of mind. Don’t allow fear to crowd out your senses. Knowing that crisis has an end should give you some peace and sanity of mind.

3. Be proactive in information management. One of the things that kill a business faster than the crisis itself is poor information management. Take charge of the information management process. Don’t let market react based on grapevine news. Hold a press conference or meet with stakeholders to let them know what the issues are and the steps you are taking to address the issues. Be opened to your staff also, let them understand the situation, but let them know you are handling the situation.

4. Take decisive actions where necessary. Don’t delay or procrastinate on important and urgent actions. You don’t leave a cancerous cell to fester and affect other part of the body. If there is a need to disengage any erring member of your team or a product line, do so quickly and communicate the disengagement properly.

5. Have a crisis and disaster management plan in place. Don’t wait for the evil day. Plan for the evil day. Your disaster recovery and management system should immediately be operational in crisis moments.

6. Watch out for new opportunities in the crisis. Crises sometimes present us with a new set of opportunities that were hitherto hidden to us. You could discover a new product line, new service type or new market in crisis, that is why you need to maintain your calmness.

If you wait it out, it will pass and you will be stronger and better. It will surely pass.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

Good morning Nigeria!

Respect is Earned

Regardless of your position in life, career, business, politics, or any area, you must learn to treat people well if you are to be successful. You must respect people to earn their respect. Respect is earned and not bought. Position vests Authority and not necessarily Respect.

There is a difference between positional authority and respect. You may have people obeying your orders and instructions by virtue of your position. If these same people continue to respect you when you are no longer in that position, then you have earned their respect. So don’t be carried away by positional authority.

Some people have only positional authority and lack respect, while some have both. You can’t get the best from your team or subordinates if all you have on them is positional authority and you haven’t earned their respect. You must grow beyond just positional authority, especially in the work place.

How do you earn respect from others?
1. Treat people fairly. Be fair to all. Don’t throw your position at people’s faces. They will be waiting for your downfall.
2. Don’t take praise for what others have done. Give the praise to whom it is due.
3. Accept blame for any shortcomings in your responsibilities even if it was done by your subordinates. You may privately scold and correct the subordinates, but never publicly.
4. Know your onions. Nothing silence critics more than performance. If you know your stuff, you will command attention and respect.
5. Be humble to seek opinion of your team when you are lost or in doubt.
6. Be more than a boss. Show interest in their personal lives and progress.
7. Be yourself. Don’t pretend to be who you are not. Speak your own mind.

Remember, respect is earned and not demanded. Don’t demand it, rather earn it.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

Good morning Nigeria!

It is Not Over Until It is Over

Remembering the last Europa Cup final between Liverpool FC and Sevilla, it further reinforces my believe that it is not yet over until it is truly over. Liverpool lead the game with a goal into the half time and they looked strong into the second half. But all of a sudden, Liverpool’s defence lost cohesion and Sevilla attackers saw the weakness and started pummeling them from all over the field. It didn’t take long for Sevilla to equalize and top it with two more goals ending the match on 3-1.

Lesson from this, Sevilla were down into the second half but they didn’t give up and they ended up winning the trophy. Friends, as you cross into the second half of the year, you may have lost a lot in the first half, but if you review your performance and improve on it, you will recover all. You will not only recover all, you will finish the year on a glorious note.

It is not over yet. Sit down. Reassess and reevaluate your plans, strengths, weaknesses, opportunities  and threats around you. Restrategize. Don’t just fold your arms to watch things unfold. Direct the flow of your life. Take charge of your life. Get out of any job or situation that makes you believe less in yourself. You need to believe in yourself and what God can use you to do, before you can overturn any negative tide.

You still have six months left in the year. Whether it is your personal goal or business goal, you can still make it. Take actions. Push forward. Don’t moan over your loss. Put the past behind and start with a fresh vigor and determination. Even if you have been written off, believe in yourself. “You may be the only person left who believes in you, but it’s enough. It takes just one star to pierce a universe of darkness. Never give up.” –  Richelle E. Goodrich.

God bless us all.

Good morning Africa!

Good morning Nigeria!