Up Close and Personal – 25032026

I began an academic journey in December 2022. It was scary to even consider the cost of the programme, especially since it was with a foreign school. It required attending some classes in person in Paris and Galilee. So, as the Bible advises, I counted the cost and initially pushed the idea aside after weighing it against my finances.

Somehow, my then boss, Teju Abisoye, came across the same application link I had discarded and forwarded it to me. I replied that I had already seen it, but I simply couldn’t reconcile the cost with my budget . She encouraged me to reconsider, assuring me that the office would explore ways to support.

And that was how I began part-funded by the office (through my training budget) and the other half covered by my savings and salary.

There were many curveballs along the way, including the closure of the Form A window to purchase FX. I remember being declined by Stanbic IBTC because I couldn’t provide a recent invoice, while the institution only issued invoices at the beginning. I had to resort to the black market, and then faced another challenge when the exchange rate skyrocketed following the unification of the forex window by PBAT. My naira cost more than tripled, and I almost quit. But whenever I reflected on how far I had come, I found the courage to keep going.

Yesterday, I was restless from morning until 3:00 p.m. (Nigeria time), when I had to defend my DBA thesis. At around 4:12 p.m., I was congratulated, I had earned my Doctorate in Business Administration.

What looked like a pipe dream in 2022 has become a reality today, through the help of God and the support of the wonderful people He placed around me. I am deeply grateful to everyone who played a role in this journey.

A friend even sold euros to me at a highly subsidised rate when he could have sold them at the black market rate. The same friend helped save my life when I caught pneumonia on a train ride from Milan to Paris in 2022, bringing medication to my apartment on the outskirts of Paris. He and his dear wife (a former colleague) also hosted me to a delicious meal and showed me around Paris. I cannot fully express all they did for me. Thank you so much, Taiwo and Bunmi Bamiduro.

Hanif Eko, thank you for your help with my data analysis. Dr. Funke Medun, my friend and sister, thank you for your guidance, having successfully walked this path before me. Ilemobayo Oladimeji, I will not forget your seed of love, it helped immensely. God bless you, bro.

To my beloved, my children, and my family members, thank you for your patience and support during those long nights of studying, when I asked not to be disturbed.

This is only the beginning of another phase, because there are still many more heights to scale by the grace of God.

To you reading this: don’t let your dream scare you. Start with one step, then another. Before you know it, you will have accomplished it.

Have a wonderful day.

Cheers!

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Daily Reflection – 24032026

Paying the price precedes receiving the prize, so, have you paid the price?

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Daily Reflection – 23032026

Keep honing your skills. In due time, your light will be seen.

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Daily Reflection – 20032026

Your next level will require a higher version of you, be prepared.

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Daily Reflection – 19032026

If everything were always good, you would be ill-prepared for life.

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Daily Reflection – 16032026

You are not valueless; you are simply ignorant of what can be transformed into value.

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Daily Reflection – 13032026

Learn the art of recognizing and focusing on the few things that truly matter.

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Daily Reflection – 12032026

Where the appreciation of value is concerned, stay loyal to yourself.

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Up Close and Personal – 11032026

You can become so familiar with someone that you begin to lose sight of the value that person brings to the table. This is the risk of over-familiarity, and we are all guilty of it at times.

Having worked with my present employer for over nine years, I felt it was time to move on to a new challenge, so I submitted my notice of resignation last year. Because of my emotional connection to the organisation and my role as a pioneer staff member, I agreed to give more than the required notice period to enable a seamless transition for my successor.

Alas, it has been difficult to find one. As I began writing my handover notes, I suddenly realised that it may take a while, or perhaps even a miracle, to find a worthy successor willing to take on the role under the current terms and conditions.

Why? Because I grew through the ranks to become a Director. Each stage of my growth was a promotion for me, but not necessarily aligned with the value the market places on such a position. This happened because both my employer and I became too familiar with each other.

This happens often in relationships, especially until one loses them. So why not begin to appreciate the relationships you may be taking for granted, whether with an employee, a friend, a colleague, or even a partner? Let it not be too late before you realise that you have lost a gem.

Have a wonderful day.

Cheers!

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Daily Reflection – 10032026

You can stand against anything, but not the truth.

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