Daily Reflection – 16032026

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You are not valueless; you are simply ignorant of what can be transformed into value.

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Daily Reflection – 13032026

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Learn the art of recognizing and focusing on the few things that truly matter.

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Daily Reflection – 12032026

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Where the appreciation of value is concerned, stay loyal to yourself.

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Up Close and Personal – 11032026

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You can become so familiar with someone that you begin to lose sight of the value that person brings to the table. This is the risk of over-familiarity, and we are all guilty of it at times.

Having worked with my present employer for over nine years, I felt it was time to move on to a new challenge, so I submitted my notice of resignation last year. Because of my emotional connection to the organisation and my role as a pioneer staff member, I agreed to give more than the required notice period to enable a seamless transition for my successor.

Alas, it has been difficult to find one. As I began writing my handover notes, I suddenly realised that it may take a while, or perhaps even a miracle, to find a worthy successor willing to take on the role under the current terms and conditions.

Why? Because I grew through the ranks to become a Director. Each stage of my growth was a promotion for me, but not necessarily aligned with the value the market places on such a position. This happened because both my employer and I became too familiar with each other.

This happens often in relationships, especially until one loses them. So why not begin to appreciate the relationships you may be taking for granted, whether with an employee, a friend, a colleague, or even a partner? Let it not be too late before you realise that you have lost a gem.

Have a wonderful day.

Cheers!

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Daily Reflection – 10032026

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You can stand against anything, but not the truth.

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Daily Reflection – 09032026

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The alignment test is the first thing to check in any relationship, so you do not waste your time.

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Daily Reflection – 06032026

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Don’t stay wishing; start planning with timelines.

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Daily Reflection – 05032026

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What is your mind’s natural proclivity, negativity or positivity? Therein lies the real issue.

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Up Close and Personal – 04032026

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Up Close and Personal – 04/03/2026

We arrived home from work somewhat early yesterday, even after picking up the boys from school. Usually, when we get home at that time, the children snack on cereal before settling down to do their homework.

So when they asked for cereal, I told them to give me a few minutes while I prepared something else for them. I felt fried plantain and potatoes would be a better option for all of us, and I volunteered to do the cooking.

I went into the kitchen and started preparing the meal. About ten minutes later, my younger son came to the kitchen door and asked if the meal was ready. I replied that it was almost done. In true childlike fashion, he responded, “It’s taking forever, Daddy.”

As I pondered the best response to give him, it struck me: isn’t this how we question God and grow impatient when we pray and wait for something? While God is busy preparing something far better than what we requested, we become restless and grumble. Just like my son did, we often act that way, ignorant of the fact that our Heavenly Father is working out something better, something that requires more time to prepare.

I believe this incident was God’s gentle way of illustrating how we grow impatient with Him, when all along He is looking out for our very best.

Why not pause now and say, “Thank You, Father, for thinking of the best for me.”

Have a wonderful day.

Cheers!

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Daily Reflection – 03032026

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Train your mind to see opportunities where others see limitations.

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