Up Close and Personal – 13112024

Sometimes, we get so overwhelmed with what we don’t have to the point that we become so ungrateful for the many things we have, but have failed to acknowledge.

Having heard or witnessed a number of sad ending of lives in the last few months, my approach to life has changed, and I’m becoming more intentional about being thankful.

First, I tend to stop worrying myself about the next day or some future issues. I just do what I can do and take it one day at a time. The moment I started doing this, I noticed a remarkable difference in my mood, mental health, and overall well-being.

No matter how big an issue is, I just do what can be done today and leave the rest for another day. It has worked for me thus far, and I plan to apply this philosophy to other aspects of my life. I suggest you try it too.

Secondly, I focus more on what I have and what I have been blessed with. Yes, I have needs, but I don’t agitate about them anymore, I simply plan as much as I can within my power. At the end of the day, nothing matters more than your life.

And no matter how important we think we are, people (even the closest to us) would move on, if anything happens to us. That is just how life is designed.

Lastly, stop bothering yourself about what people think, and to be honest, most people don’t even think about what you think they will criticise you for. And even if they do, it is their own cup of tea. Just live your life in a way pleasing to God, that is all that is required of you.

So, my dear friends, simplify your life. One day at a time, practice gratitude, and quit agitating over other people’s opinions.

Take care, and have a wonderful day.

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Daily Reflection – 11112024

Where we are today is a product of the behaviors we permitted yesterday, so if we strive for a different tomorrow, we need to start to repudiate certain behaviors now.

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Daily Reflection – 08112024

Familiarity breeds complacency; make it a habit to break into new terrain.

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Daily Reflection – 07112024

If you’re going to stand out, you must start ignoring what others will say about your actions.

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Up Close and Personal – 06112024

I attended a launch event yesterday, and while listening to a former high-ranking State official, I picked up a lesson I believe others might find valuable as well.

During a fireside chat, in response to a question, she said, “We must learn to live with the fact that there will always be some unachieved goals.” She shared that, in her youth, she didn’t believe this, but now, in her old age, she has come to accept it as a reality.

I reflected on this and grappled with it. How do I discern what I won’t be able to accomplish, and what I should leave for future generations to achieve? While I can’t say I have all the answers, I do agree that we won’t achieve everything before we leave this world—but we must not stop trying.

It’s essential that we do all we can, and if certain goals remain unmet, it shouldn’t be for lack of effort. So, don’t continue blaming yourself if, after giving your best, some things still don’t come to fruition. Find peace within yourself when you’ve done all you can, and it still didn’t happen.

A fitting example is King David, who, despite having the resources, was not permitted to build a tabernacle for God; that role was intended for Solomon.

In closing, recognize what your “best” truly represents. Sometimes, it’s not just about having tried; it’s about having prepared the ground for someone else to reach the goal.

Take care, and have a wonderful day.

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Daily Reflection – 04112024

Your value is not solely derived from positive experiences; you also gain wisdom from negative ones.

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Daily Reflection – 01112024

If you leave all your decisions to others, you risk becoming a tool for manipulation.

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Daily Reflection – 31102024

Moderation is key in everything; always be moderate in whatever you do.

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Up Close and Personal – 30102024

I didn’t realize how much times have changed until last week when my toddler said, “Daddy, you are shouting at me; you’re shouting in my ears” (while actually pointing at his ears). I stood still for a few seconds in amazement, wondering whether those words came from him or if there was a voice somewhere else in the room.

After regaining my composure, I began to grapple with the dilemma of whether I should discipline him or simply hold my peace. I weighed the pros and cons. Yes, I had raised my voice, and I could have communicated the message without doing so. But, should he have responded that way? And if I disciplined him for it, would I be stifling his self-expression? These questions raced through my mind in those few seconds, and I ultimately decided to mildly scold him and explain that I had raised my voice because he wasn’t listening.

This experience highlighted just how different the Alpha generation is, even compared to Gen Z. So, if you’re already struggling to understand Gen Z, brace yourself for the Alpha Generation. As they say in my native language, “Ee ti ri nkankan” (you haven’t seen anything yet).

What has your experience been like?

Take care, and have a wonderful day.

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Daily Reflection – 29102024

Do not stereotype others based on myths or societal biases, form your own opinion, and do so per person.

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