Month: July 2024

Daily Reflection – 16072024

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If our system fails to identify and check those who are destroying us through their corrupt practices, they will eventually destroy our society.

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Daily Reflection – 15072024

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A time will come when we will have to rely on others to do things, so will there be any help for you when that time comes?

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Daily Reflection – 12072024

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They that walk in the light of truth seek no fame, but their names outlive them.

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Daily Reflection – 11072024

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You cannot ascend to certain ranks without severing ties with certain people.

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Up Close and Personal – 10072024

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Until you begin to take responsibility for your life, your actions, and your inactions, you are not ready for growth.

We live in an environment that encourages communal living and extended family structures, which is good in some ways, but it sometimes engenders feelings of entitlement.

While we need a support system in life’s journey, it must be a system that we have contributed to building, no matter how small.

You are not entitled to reap where you have not sown. It is wrong to assume that because someone is related to you and doing better, he or she is obligated to help you. What if the person you are looking up to needs help?

I grew up knowing that there is a limit to what you should expect from others, especially those you believe should help you. Having lost our father at an early age (I was 2 weeks short of 15 then), the uncles, aunties, and relatives we thought would be of help couldn’t do much, and I hold no grudge against any of them. They probably had enough on their plates too.

I learned how to fend for myself and support my mother in my little way. I took responsibility for my growth and development, with guidance and the little support I could get. I never questioned anyone for not helping, and this probably is why I still find it difficult to ask for help (which may not be good on its own, because we all need help at some point).

The point is, seek help responsibly, but take responsibility for your life. Nobody owes you more than they can give. Know this and know peace.

Cheers, and have a great day.

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Daily Reflection – 09072024

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Do not trivialize periods of intense challenges or trials in your life, for they often mark major transition periods.

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Daily Reflection – 08072024

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It is not the hurt that actually hurts, it is holding on to the hurt that ruins.

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Daily Reflection – 05072024

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Do not focus on the quantity of friends you have around you, but on the quality.

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Daily Reflection – 04072024

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Do not fold your hands when evil ravages the land because you are not affected, lest you become a sudden victim.

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Daily Reflection – 02072024

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A house does not suddenly collapse, it weakens by the day as neglect persists.

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