Up Close and Personal – 31072024

In another life, if such an opportunity exists, I would choose the legal profession as my career. My attraction to the legal field began when I read John Grisham’s novel, The Rainmaker. My interest grew stronger as I continued reading his novels, particularly those that delve into the intricacies of the American jury system.

I am always fascinated by the arguments from both the prosecution and defense, the shouts of ‘objections’ and their subsequent sustainment or overruling.

Even more compelling is the process of gathering evidence and using words to set traps for witnesses or the accused, and witnessing how a seemingly hopeless case can be turned around through the brilliance of counsel.

Grisham’s writing prowess makes one want to dive into the world of legal practice, much like how some movies can immerse you to the point of forgetting their fictional nature. One such film is Miracle in Cell No. 7. I believed I could remain unemotional during any movie until I watched this one.

Humans are generally captivated by what we see or read in fiction or movies, often assuming that such portrayals reflect reality. This also applies to social media, particularly with posts from celebrities. We see the glamour and wish to emulate their lives, even though the reality for many celebrities is quite different. Some are struggling, some are merely maintaining appearances, while others are genuinely successful.

Despite my fascination with the legal profession, I am aware that it requires years of study, passing the bar exams, practicing, and continuous learning to excel. Nothing is as easy as portrayed in movies or novels; significant effort is required to become a force in any field. Thus, don’t just desire the glamour you see in movies or on social media; be prepared to do the work.

Moreover, do not judge others because their lives do not measure up to the standards you have set based on movies or celebrities. You might miss the opportunity to grow with people who have great potential. Learn to pay the price before enjoying the prize.

Cheers, and have a great day.

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Daily Reflection – 30072024

Be mindful of your biases and emotions; always be led by available facts, and where none exist, seek them out.

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Daily Reflection – 29072024

Those who go all out to seek vengeance often become victims of their own plans.

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Daily Reflection – 26072024

He who will be the greatest must be chief servant of all.

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Daily Reflection – 25072024

Your attitude either attracts or repels favor  and, often the deal breaker is in the attitude.

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Daily Reflection – 23072024

When it seems like you are left behind, you may be in the process of being pushed beyond those who have gone ahead of you.

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Daily Reflection – 22072024

Resilience and courage are what separate those who convert losses to riches from those who give up.

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Daily Reflection – 19072024

Be content with honest gains, for even if your progress seems slow, you are far richer than a corrupt wealthy person.

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Daily Reflection – 18072024

Build the people around you while you are strong, so you can tap into their strengths should you find yourself in a weak position.

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Up Close and Personal – 17072024

I attended an official event about two weeks ago, and a colleague sent some photographs of me at different points during the event.

One that vividly caught my attention was a side-view shot while I was listening to another colleague. I noticed that the few strands of grey hair on my head have now increased to several clusters.

I looked at the picture with mixed feelings. One part of me thought, “So this is what aging means,” while another part felt proud that these grey hairs came with experience.

There is nothing to be ashamed of in growing old, as long as you are gaining wisdom and growing. Isn’t it written that the glory of old men is their grey hair?

In summary, don’t worry if your hair is greying. It is just part of the journey. Make sure you enjoy the journey.

Cheers, and have a great day.

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